I didn’t become heartless , I just became smarter. My happiness will not depend on someone else . Not anymore
You can never truly be stuck. Even the thought of being stuck is freedom itself.
It occurred to me then that it was in times of struggle that I found the best parts of myself - courage, loyalty, an unexpected peace - and I always discovered what I needed to break through and go on.
Forget about your life situation and pay attention to your life. Your life situation exists in time. Your life is now. Your life situation is mind-stuff. Your life is real.
You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them… But still move on without them.
I see the glamorization of pretending that one feels okay when this display is in fact a lie. This normalization stares at us consumingly from billboards and magazines so naturally we find this phenomenon in our daily interactions- our friendships even, but I urge you into the softness of true expression- into the sacred space of melting into what you are currently feeling, knowing that it is part of the expansive unfolding.